| Rationalising a dispute |
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| Love - Affairs | |
 W hen it comes to dispute, usually the matter is not that a matter and while it would be easy and preferable to settle down any kind of conflict with your partner and love one, explain the problem and avoid unnecessary emotional tricks, we often let the tension go increasing in the secret hope to take advantage of the situation .
Got Faulty?Wrong strategy and more, unproductive when we all know that it causes akind of lingering insecurity that lead to divert us from our point. Why not simply manage to stay in control of the situation, avoid screaming matches, melodrama schemes, theatral gestures and unproductive dilemma, as the last result would and should be to simply get the point across and help sort the matter out.What To DoDoing things in a calm and controlled way preferably not straight after a leching incident has proven to be usefull for decades as we all know that men hate nagging and we hate being cast in the role of harassing harpy. The subttle and efficient way is to tune off slightly our voice while arguing in a reasonable tone that will be listened while keeping force to your arguments. You're not making akind of of paranoia or nervous breakdown, the matter really is but your guy have decided for comfort to play the fool as a defense. Just make that clear for you that it's like climbing a mountain to try to rationalise subjectivity when you're in that kind of situation.
So, to get the most of this, control the way you tell about what bothers you and why, make it understandable that it makes you feel uncomfortable, and mainly avoid tears and big shouts. Then manage to keep the daily life going its usual rythmn keeping a subtle distance but not obviously schemed.
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